Lev got upset on the way home from meeting on the tram Wednesday night. He was tired, and probably wanted to nurse, but the lights were really bright on the tram and we were travelling with the brothers. Lev ramped up his screaming so fast that everyone was staring before I could do anything; there just wasn't a discrete way to nurse him at that point. Only a minute or two into his screaming fit, a lady started yelling at us, in Russian of course, essentially saying "Silence Your Child! Silence!" Matt meekly responded that we were trying. Another lady on the tram then started yelling at the other lady, and they got into a heated argument about how to appropriately address the problem and such. As luck would have it, we were still 20 minutes from our stop. I tried shushing him, singing to him, attempted to stand and bounce him (no small feat on a bumping, jolting tram), but nothing worked. I probably should have just whipped out the "num-nums," but seriously, picture a brightly lit tram with windows (reflections) on all sides; there was no way to be discrete, especially with all of the attention already on us! So, he screamed. And the lady glared at us. And the brothers offered sympathy and got to witness parenting at its finest. And we eagerly exited the tram 2 stops early, glad to walk the extra 1/4 mile and get some fresh air. Sometimes I forget that we are actually living in Russia; this was not one of those times!
I don't want you all to worry about us though, we are truly enjoying our time here and most people are very friendly and helpful. We are getting to know our neighbors, particularly the ones with children that frequent the playground. Most of the mothers know about as much English as I do Russian, and so we manage to converse a little bit.
matt.meg.larson
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October 12, 2018
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Megan - Novosibirsk, Russia
Lev got upset on the way home from meeting on the tram Wednesday night. He was tired, and probably wanted to nurse, but the lights were really bright on the tram and we were travelling with the brothers. Lev ramped up his screaming so fast that everyone was staring before I could do anything; there just wasn't a discrete way to nurse him at that point. Only a minute or two into his screaming fit, a lady started yelling at us, in Russian of course, essentially saying "Silence Your Child! Silence!" Matt meekly responded that we were trying. Another lady on the tram then started yelling at the other lady, and they got into a heated argument about how to appropriately address the problem and such. As luck would have it, we were still 20 minutes from our stop. I tried shushing him, singing to him, attempted to stand and bounce him (no small feat on a bumping, jolting tram), but nothing worked. I probably should have just whipped out the "num-nums," but seriously, picture a brightly lit tram with windows (reflections) on all sides; there was no way to be discrete, especially with all of the attention already on us! So, he screamed. And the lady glared at us. And the brothers offered sympathy and got to witness parenting at its finest. And we eagerly exited the tram 2 stops early, glad to walk the extra 1/4 mile and get some fresh air. Sometimes I forget that we are actually living in Russia; this was not one of those times!
I don't want you all to worry about us though, we are truly enjoying our time here and most people are very friendly and helpful. We are getting to know our neighbors, particularly the ones with children that frequent the playground. Most of the mothers know about as much English as I do Russian, and so we manage to converse a little bit.
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Let's Call this a Midlife Crisis
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Logistics; the To Do List Grows
3.
Everything Hinges on This
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The Future Looks Bright?
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Suddenly, I'm Terrified
6.
Interline Agreements, Code Share, and what it all means for you
7.
Progress Report, and an Ode to Duluth
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We'll Laugh About this Later
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We're Alive!
10.
A Day in the Life
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Whatever You Do, Don't Sit Down!
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Remember How I Said I Was Afraid the Kids Would Drive Me Nuts?
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The Quest for Popcorn Seeds
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Stay As Long As You Can
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Silence Your Child!
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Mmmm. Fish-Flavored Chicken
17.
A Little Slice of North Shore
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More Screaming
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Our Four Walls
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Mom! I Found a Hole For Your Pee!
21.
Coca-Cola Soaked Goodbyes
22.
Snow, And More Snow!
23.
Thanksgiving
24.
We Went to the Zoo
25.
My Parents are Coming! Whoop Whoop!
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Dad Here - Guest Post
27.
Proud Mom Moment
28.
More Adventures with Mom and Dad
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Village Life
30.
First Visa Renewal Trip
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It's Still Winter Here
32.
Cabin Fever is Real
33.
"Hello? I'd Like to Speak With HR"
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The Sun is Shining!
35.
Six Months In and Still Loving It (mostly)
36.
Finn Goes to School!
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$6.64
38.
More Dabbling in the Healthcare System
39.
Honey, I Poisoned the Kids
40.
Time for a Pity Party...
41.
1000 Hours Outside
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"...Wake Me Up at About Half Past May."
43.
How Fresh and Green
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The Chaos Continues
45.
Can We Catch a Break Already?
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Feeling Isolated
47.
Summer!
48.
Vacation!
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Beware of the draft…
50.
Housing in the City
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Where Has the Time Gone?!
52.
Registration Woes
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Village of Peace/World
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Indian Summer
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Autumn Leaves
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Defeat
57.
Spinning Heads and Heavy Hearts
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Life is Weird
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